It's a crazy and tough world out there... you don't even know who to trust... not even your own bestfriend... you can only trust Allah...
Being a single lady, it is really a big challenge to have to go through obstacles in life on oneself. People may take advantage and naive ladies like myself would always be the victim. Plus being an orphan it makes it even tougher to get things done and always been left out. Friends who have their own husbands can share their thoughts, talk their heart and mind to their spouses to have a balance in life.
I remember a phrase...get married to complete your deen... yup, i suppose that is true as that completes the equation, i.e. the balance equation. All the creations of Allah are in pairs, they have partners for life.. and uniquely created in opposition just like our hands and legs. Can you walk if you only have one leg? Unless if you are using a walking stick then you can, i.e. you need to have a support. How about ladies who are still single and waiting for that one man who will complete their deen? How can they walk without support? Well, that's just an analogy. But in the real meaning, ladies need support in terms of love and care by those closest to them, like the father and mother. Even friends will not be able to take the place of a loving parent.
Sometimes, friends misunderstood your presence as someone who is desperate and needy in terms of finding true love and friendship. That makes single ladies feel that they need to take time by themselves and reflect on whatever that have happened.
People come and go... but Allah stay by your side as long as you put Him first.
in shaa Allah...
